How many “large-scale,” “structural” complaints actually amount to: it’s hard to get people to see me the way I wish they would see me?

I’m not sneering at that.  It’s one of the realest emotional pains that humans experience, and finding a way to alleviate it at scale is one of the major components of any utopian project.  But: trying to push your narrative by using cultural coercion to destroy competing narratives is never, ever, ever going to work.  You will kill everyone in the world with psychic toxoplasma long before you get that kind of mental power over the people who are hurting you.  You need a better strategy.